What would he expect you to do to feed his habit?
Steal?
Beg?
Prostitute yourself?
Neglect your children?
He threatens you with community care saying you are a bad mother.
He talks about his sources, his debts and the danger to you and your family.
At one stage you could reason with him now you are talking to his addiction.
You cannot change him.
You can only change yourself.
He does not control your life.
Start looking at your options now.

...Power & Control are at the root of all Domestic Abuse!

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